Baby. Momma. Ambitions

*Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up.

*If two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-12

Let me start by sayin, BABY MOMMA is not an ambition. Ladies stop walking around calling yourselves 'so and so's babymomma.' That term should be banned from the english language. That term would be equivalent to 'NIGGER'. yeah i said it. i feel like if you consider yourself a man's babymomma instead of the mother of a child, then your the one with the issues. DON'T get madd when your 'Babydaddy' disrespects you. DON'T get mad if other females disrespect your title because, you made it that way. You disrespected your title. wait. Before you scroll down lemme explain, when your with your baby's father and his friends ask who you are and you say, 'John's* babymomma', people are gonna analyze that situation so much differently then you imagined it in your head. Now don't get me wrong, i know tons of wonderful unwed mothers BIGG UPS LADIES. and they hold their positions to the Tee. They would never let anyone call them a BABYMOMMA, they are either still in relationships with the Child's father; therefore they are girlfriends, or if not they are independent meaning alone and comfortable in this instance, not needing a man to defy YOU. I'm not saying people are aren't put into situations where they can't help but do it alone, i commend you strong individuals. Do not succumb to a title or an image because you and another individual bore life. If you were married you'd be a wife right? get it? good. I love being a woman. Especially a black woman. We run this. believe it or not, we have to make a difference. The Difference. I-nity.